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Distinctively Her is an organization committed to empowering women and girls through education, mentorship, and community-building. We offer programs designed to foster leadership, confidence, and personal development in a supportive environment.
We offer a variety of programs that cater to different age groups and areas of personal growth. Here’s a breakdown of what we offer:
College Bound: Mastering the College Application Process and Beyond
This program is designed for high school students and their families. It provides guidance on navigating the college application process, applying for scholarships, and preparing for college life. It is offered quarterly and serves as a valuable resource for students looking to further their education.
Mini Masterclasses Series
Our Mini Masterclasses focus on various topics relevant to women of all ages, such as career development, personal growth, financial literacy, and more. These quarterly sessions are designed to provide actionable advice and foster personal empowerment.
Distinctively Debutantes Program
This year-long program is for young girls aged 10-17. It aims to develop leadership skills, self-confidence, etiquette, and social engagement. Participants will learn valuable life skills through workshops and activities, and the program culminates in the Grand Cotillion, where the young women are celebrated and crowned.
Mommy and Me Program
The Mommy and Me program is designed for mothers and daughters aged 5-10. This program focuses on bonding through fun, interactive activities that encourage leadership, communication, and personal development. The program strengthens family dynamics and promotes healthy relationships through shared experiences.
You can support Distinctively Her by attending our events, donating, or volunteering. To donate, visit our Support Us page or text “HER” to 28950. Your contributions help us continue to provide empowering programs for women and girls.
Yes, we welcome volunteers who are passionate about empowering women and girls. To learn more about volunteer opportunities, please complete the “Shape the Future – Volunteer Application Form” located on the Support Us page.
Completion of Standard Application: Please contact info@distinctivelyher.org to receive our official form!
A cotillion is a formal social dance that originated in 18th-century Europe, initially popularized by French royalty. It spread to England and later to wealthy white families in the U.S., especially in the South. In the early 20th century, affluent African American families adapted the tradition. The cotillion served as a coming-of-age event for young women, where they were introduced to society, prepared for marriage, and trained in etiquette, dance, and dress.
By the 1940s, African American organizations, including fraternities, sororities, and civic groups, adopted the cotillion, making it accessible to girls from various socioeconomic backgrounds. These programs emphasized leadership, self-confidence, and community involvement, often offering scholarships and other incentives, with elements like talent or essay competitions.
First Lady Serita Jakes later introduced a spiritual component to the debutante program, aiming to help young women build a strong foundation in their faith, which she believed would help them navigate life’s challenges.
In our program, Core Debutantes (aged 16+ or graduating seniors) are officially crowned at the Grand Cotillion. Although Junior and Junior Miss Debutantes do not officially graduate until they become Core Debutantes, they still actively participate in the cotillion and receive recognition for their involvement.
No, T.O.R.I. does not provide immediate housing or operate as an inpatient facility. However, through partnerships with local organizations, skilled case managers assist returning citizens in connecting with local housing resources to achieve stable housing after incarceration.
Yes, T.O.R.I.’s case management services and training classes are offered virtually. To enroll, please complete an on-line application at bit.ly/TORIApplication and join one of our interest meetings on Mondays at 11:30am at bit.ly/TORI_NCO. Contact our intake coordinator at 214-941-1325 ext. 104, if you have problems accessing the link.
No, any individual with a criminal background (excluding sexual offenses, with the exception of prostitution) and over the age of 18 can join the T.O.R.I. program.
The T.O.R.I. program is a 6 to 12-month rehabilitative program focused on empowering participants to achieve their maximum potential. The program culminates in a graduation ceremony.
No, T.O.R.I. does not provide onsite healthcare or in-house legal services. However, through partnerships with local agencies and organizations, skilled case managers can connect participants with the assistance they need.
To enroll, please complete an on-line application at bit.ly/TORIApplication and join one of our interest meetings on Mondays at 11:30am at bit.ly/TORI_NCO. Contact our intake coordinator at 214-941-1325 ext. 104, if you have problems accessing the link.
T.O.R.I. offers various volunteer opportunities, including virtual classroom assistants, pre-release jail class teachers, parole presenters, virtual class facilitators, community event representatives, graduation and event helpers, and inmate mail correspondents.
To get involved, contact the Volunteer Coordinator at 214-941-1325 ext. 104.
T.O.R.I. serves both men and women who have a criminal background and are seeking reentry support.
T.O.R.I. offers job readiness training, résumé building, interview coaching, and employer connections to help returning citizens secure background-friendly employment.
T.O.R.I. connects participants with community resources for financial support, education grants, and employment opportunities. In limited circumstances, T.O.R.I. provides emergency assistance to eligible clients who are actively participating in the program.
Yes, T.O.R.I. offers family reunification services to clients of the T.O.R.I. program and family counseling to clients and their families at no additional charge.
Yes, referrals can be made by family members, parole officers, or other organizations. The referred individual must complete an on-line application via bit.ly/TORIApplication and attend new client orientation via bit.ly/TORI_NCO.
Yes, T.O.R.I. partners with detention centers under the jurisdiction of the Tarrant County Sheriff’s Department and the Dallas County Sheriff’s Department to provide pre-release reentry education and post-release transitional services. All other incarcerated individuals must complete an on-line application via bit.ly/TORIApplication to enroll in the program after they are released from incarceration.
Graduates are celebrated in a formal ceremony and participate in a monthly Alumni Roundtable to continue to have access to alumni support, resources and networking opportunities.
Donations can be made online through the T.O.R.I. website TORIProgram.org (click the Donate button in the upper right-hand corner).